How to change for the better

The first step is to set yourself up. It is necessary to mentally prepare for difficulties. Any change causes a breaking of the personality. Our Self is always conservative, so it’s hard to break the foundations of your life. You need to be patient and show the will for every action. You need to set yourself up in order to go through this path to the end, otherwise all efforts will be in vain.

The next step is to determine what is wrong with your own actions and thoughts. In this situation, it is difficult to focus only on yourself. A subjective opinion about oneself can ruin the whole thing at the very beginning. Therefore, we turn to friends and relatives. You can get a notebook where to write down all the arguments of friends. When listening to other people’s opinions, try not to criticize them. Ask for advice on how to improve your behavior. But use advice only as advice, not as a hard line.

After that, we look at the list and learn to change. Let’s start reading classical literature. It very clearly shows the bad and good sides of the human personality, we analyze the events and behavior of the characters. We take something for ourselves. You can also watch movies, but books are more effective. We correct the vices that prevent you from changing. For example, if you are a “rude person”, then you should pay attention to the methods of your communication with people. Find out for yourself the reasons for your incontinence and foul language (rudeness). Try to avoid it. Engage in various calming techniques, such as meditation and auto-training. Read psychological literature and watch relevant films.

Start keeping a diary. Record all events and most importantly emotions. Keep a detailed report every day, and try to analyze. After such an analysis, you will be able to determine what you did wrong, and think about how to avoid it in the future.