How to communicate with guys?
To begin with, let’s say how not to communicate with guys (in particular) and with men (in general).
- Don’t try to sound overly relaxed — unless you want to be seen as an option to just «have a good time» with.
- Do not talk too freely about sex — you can talk about this with your partner when your relationship is already strong enough. Therefore, no matter how well you know the topic, when communicating with guys (especially unfamiliar ones), keep your tongue shut.
- Speaking of language, in the presence of guys (and men) always watch your expressions. With girlfriends or buddies you can express yourself as your darling wants, but it is much more profitable for you to communicate with male guys (and I emphasize this word) practically in the language of a Turgenev girl.
- Don’t be afraid to be funny or retarded, and don’t think about how you need to communicate with guys to get their attention. Focus primarily on yourself and your spiritual comfort and behave naturally. So you will force yourself to be respected — a more solid foundation for relations between a man and a woman can hardly be found.
How to learn to communicate with guys?
The psychology of male and female personality is only 18% similar. we react differently to the same event, think differently and even hear differently. Therefore, if you feel that you don’t know how to communicate with guys, don’t let it bring you to a panic state, because thousands (not to say millions) of girls in any corner of the Earth feel the same thing.
How and what can be done to properly communicate with a man or a guy? Of course, the happiest option is to have a smart, intelligent person in your circle (regardless of whether it is a man or a woman). Any contact with him can be a great lesson in how to communicate beautifully not only with a guy, but with people in general.
Perhaps you have a friend with whom you just sometimes exchange a couple of phrases? Feel free to ask him about how, in his opinion, girls should communicate with guys? Take an interest in which girls (and for what) his friends treat with respect, and which (and for what reason) were blacklisted. To make it easier for you to start this conversation, keep in mind the following: it has been proven that men spend much more time on gossip than women.
If you are not too lazy, read simple books about the psychology of men — this will also help you understand how to communicate with guys. The theory is good, but you will only learn to skate if you get on those skates. At the same time, of course, falls are inevitable — sometimes quite painful. However, we have already said that communication, like any other action, is improved in the process of practical training (no matter how this phrase hurts our ears).
Therefore, instead of thinking about how you should communicate with guys, you just need to gradually begin to communicate with them — in those places where it is possible without the risk of being misunderstood. Look at every conversation with a guy as a kind of training and an opportunity to polish the technique of proper communication — nothing more.
How to start talking to a guy?
By asking him any (except meaningless!) question — how else? You will learn how to communicate with guys (and people in general) when you learn to ask questions that can become a topic for further conversation. Also, answer questions like this.
If we are talking about a guy with whom you have already started some kind of relationship — do not hesitate to compliment him to break the awkwardness of the ensuing silence. He is a living person, so leave him the right to feel embarrassed, agitated and confused too, and help him make your communication easier.
What is the best way to communicate with a guy?
Both with a guy and with any man in general, you need to communicate in such a way that he feels that there is a woman in front of him. You may not believe me, but perhaps the best way to explain to you how to properly communicate with a guy could be your grandmother.
Why am I writing this? Because in the behavior of a woman or a girl there are timeless values that fascinate men today just as much as a century and a half ago. If communication with your grandmother is difficult for any reason, maybe you would not be too lazy to re-read the beginning of the article?