How to get a guy’s attention?
«Did you like the guy? So you shouldn’t wait for the weather by the sea, you need to muster up the courage and come to meet yourself!” — such tips are full of guides to transforming your personal life. Everything seems to be right: they liked it, they approached, conquered and left the party with a trophy. Yes, and it’s not difficult, probably, to approach something, but problems may arise with conquest, you need to come up with something. So how can you attract the attention of a stranger so that the acquaintance is successful, what needs to be done for this?
Ways to get a guy’s attention
- How else can a girl get a guy’s attention if not with a look? Therefore, we look at the guy we like so that he has time to notice your interest, the main thing is that it should not be very intent. When he notices the look turned on him, we are a little embarrassed and look away, but only in order to look again. Why shouldn’t you look too closely into the eyes? Psychologists say that men in most cases tend to consider a long look into the eyes as an offer to have fun, but only for one night. If such an effect is undesirable, then it is worth being more restrained.
- Correct posture. Look how much better any outfit looks on girls with a straight back and a proud head. If you do not have such natural data, then you should rehearse at home in front of a mirror, or even better, sign up for dancing. And you will have a good time, and you will straighten your back and gain grace.
- According to the observations of psychologists, a large part of the impression at the first meeting consists of body signals and appearance. Therefore, in order to attract the attention of a guy you like, you can copy his gestures, for example, sit down like him or tilt your head in the same direction. The main thing is not to turn into a monkey, it is unlikely that a person will be pleased if you start frankly mimicking him. But unobtrusive imitation will make it clear to the interlocutor that you are “on the same wavelength” with him.
- The first impression is made, he appreciated your stunning appearance and spoke to you. Great, the main thing is not to spoil everything. The second most important place for forming an opinion about a person is the manner of speaking. Therefore, we learn to speak with a guy correctly. No matter how macho a guy builds of himself, he can be offended by any remark, even jokingly said. Therefore, at the first meeting, it is better to hold back your causticity and malice, and criticize the interlocutor less. Also, do not answer his questions in monosyllables, he will also decide that he is not interested in you. But you also don’t need to go to the other extreme — to dedicate a guy to all the vicissitudes of his life either. Remember, your problems are of interest only to you, and, perhaps, to your parents.
- By the way, about the distance between the interlocutors. It is clear that in a club with loud music, like it or not, you have to get closer to be able to hear each other. But in other cases, it is better not to immediately invade personal space, it ranges from 1 to 3.5 m. The distance from 0.5 m to 1 meter is intended for communication with friends and good acquaintances. But if during communication you gradually get closer to the interlocutor and at the same time do not see any manifestations of displeasure on his part, then everything is fine. You can continue the offensive, for example, lightly touch his arm or shoulder to show your interest.
- How can a girl attract a guy’s attention if she is not interesting to herself, not self-confident? It is clear that in this case nothing will come of it. Therefore, we are like the heroine of an old film and say to ourselves: «I am the most charming and attractive.» And of course, your awareness of the latest events, the ability to hold a conversation and make it interesting, will not interfere, is very important. So, we pay attention not only to our external design, but also to the internal content.
If you still failed to attract the attention of the guy you like, do not despair. It’s not a fact that it’s about you, perhaps his heart is already taken, or it’s just not your person — this also happens.