How to introduce a girl to her parents

Choose the right time to meet. Perhaps it will be a family celebration, a field trip, etc. Shouldn’t bring girl meet unexpectedly, as one of your parents may not be ready for this, for example, they will feel bad at this moment, which can spoil the overall impression of the acquaintance. And the girl in such a situation will feel uncomfortable. Warn both your parents and your soulmate in advance so that they are mentally prepared for this event.

Before you bring girl to get acquainted, tell your parents briefly about her, about her character, her hobbies. Let them have some opinion about it. Naturally, try to make this opinion positive.

Prepare your loved one for a visit. Tell us about your parents, their activities, what questions they are likely to ask, what they might be interested in about her personality. This is necessary so that the girl is more confident and calm, although some excitement will still be present.

You, like no one else, know what your parents like. Therefore, advise the girl what is better to buy as a gift. Maybe your dad loves cognac, then you can present him this drink in a beautiful bottle. And mom can give her favorite flowers and sweets. It is not necessary to make gifts that are too expensive, as this may look like an attempt to earn a good attitude at the expense of material means. But even without a gift to come is also not very decent.

Advise the girl how to dress better. The first impression should be good, so it is important that your soulmate looks neat, well-groomed, stylish. If she adheres to some kind of extraordinary style, then she does not need to completely change her image, but she should try to soften it so as not to shock her parents. And they should be warned that the girl does not dress quite habitually for them.

Let the girl try to behave easily and naturally during the acquaintance itself. You should not sit and be afraid to say the word once again, but your parents may not like excessive talkativeness. Help your girlfriend during the conversation, especially if you see that she is nervous. Somewhere joke, somewhere transfer the conversation to another topic, if you see that the conversation is starting to take on an undesirable turn.

When visiting your family for the first time, bring small gifts. Mom — flowers or sweets. Father — cognac or cigars.

Dress modestly but stylishly. The girl doesn’t need war paint. Do make-up in a daytime style.

Don’t act pretentious. Communication should be casual. This happens with natural behavior.

Keep the conversation going at the table. Answer questions with restraint and truth. Do not pounce on food, but do not refuse. Praise prepared meals.

FROM parents you need to pre-discuss the questions that you do not need to ask at the first meeting.

If there are difficulties in communication, then you need to come to the aid of the chosen one (chosen one).

You don’t have to stay long. For the first acquaintance, 1.5-2 hours is enough.

Say goodbye politely, thank you for the treat. Take the girl home. You can escort the guy to the entrance or stop.