How to start a conversation with a girl on the Internet

Decide what you need a girl for. If you want to start a conversation with a girl on the Internet in order to start a serious relationship with her — this is one case, but if you just chat — another. In any case, there are a lot of dating sites on the Internet. Depending on your intentions, you can choose one of them.

If you started talking to a girl on the Internet, you can move on to the next stage of online dating — communication via instant messaging (for this you need to install special software on your computer, for example, ICQ or MSN).
You can also add the girl as a friend in one of the social networks in which you are registered. Thus, communication with a girl on the Internet will become more frequent and intense.

When you’re talking to a girl online, always read everything you’ve written aloud before you send it to her. Remember that sometimes what you write seems normal, but when you say it out loud and hear the text from the side, everything sounds completely different. Checking messages early in the conversation can help you calm your nerves and make sure you type exactly what you want to say and not something ambiguous.

Don’t use emoticons. This is appropriate during Internet communication, but abusing them can irritate the girl you are talking to, and she will think that you have nothing to say to her.

Be yourself, don’t try to pass yourself off as someone else. In this case, you will really enjoy talking with a girl on the Internet and increase your chances of meeting her in real life.

Do not start a conversation with a hackneyed phrase. Show originality. The first phrase should interest, intrigue, laugh, but not drive into a stupor. If you have a sense of humor, this will help a lot. If not, don’t despair. The main thing — do not mumble under your breath, do not stutter, do not insert parasitic words. And even if in ordinary life you swear like a shoemaker, in no case should you use your French when talking with a girl.

Be bold, but not pushy. Overconfidence is repulsive. You can be a little embarrassed. If in fact there is no embarrassment at all, portray it. No need to learn to blush, stutter and blink your eyelashes rapidly. Just make a slight hitch at the end of the phrase. As a starter of a conversation, you can, for example, ask a girl to help deal with something.

To start a conversation at the gym, a veiled compliment on her outfit will do. Veiled! Do not cut from the shoulder with the phrase «Oh, what a cute T-shirt you have, how it delightfully emphasizes the chest.» Easier. At the rink, you can praise her triple somersault. She does not do somersaults, but only sorts out with great difficulty with her skates? Offer a helping hand, gently advise how to push off and how to slow down.

In a nightclub and at a disco, you don’t have to be too smart about the beginning of the first phrase — there the atmosphere itself suggests making acquaintances. Just invite the girl you like to dance, and if she likes you, the conversation will start by itself.