Husband-tyrant — advice from a psychologist
Husbands-domestic tyrants — this is a fairly common phenomenon. A woman often hides that her husband is a tyrant, but she needs the advice of a psychologist in order to know how to behave with him.
How to resist a husband — a tyrant and a manipulator?
A tyrant is a neurotic who is obsessed with a power complex and asserts himself at the expense of other people. He is not able to concede superiority in any situation, but if he fails to quench his thirst for power at work, he begins to “build” households. Any woman who has concluded that her husband is a tyrant has to look for an answer to the question of how to live with him.
Psychologists recommend following certain rules that will help resist a tyrant husband:
- you need to accept the fact that the husband is a tyrant and a manipulator, it is useless to remake him, this will cause rage and aggression;
- it is impossible to forgive a husband for disrespect and violence, he must be rebuffed, forced to reckon with himself, and if the answer is assault, it is necessary to part with such a spouse;
- you need to maintain your social circle, even if the husband does not like the relatives and friends of the spouse, it is these people who can become support and support in a difficult situation;
- it is necessary to know the helpline of the social service in order to promptly receive advice from psychologists to get rid of negative emotions and resolve conflicts.
Husband-tyrant — to endure or get rid of?
Sooner or later, any wife of a tyrant wonders whether she should endure further or get a divorce. There can be no universal advice in this case, because it often happens that, despite the disgusting nature of the husband, there are warm feelings and memories between the spouses.
In addition, there are other reasons for maintaining a family that must be taken into account. First, it is the presence of children. A father in almost any case will be able to provide a family better than a single mother. Another important factor is the status of a married woman, with whom not every lady will decide to part.
How to get rid of a tyrant’s husband?
If life with a tyrant and a manipulator has become unbearable, you need to leave him. Since such a husband will most likely not allow his wife to leave in peace, a woman needs to prepare.
First, it is necessary take care of material well-being: create savings, collect valuables, get a job. Secondly, the departure from the tyrant must be planned at a time when he is not at home, otherwise the husband can use both force and psychological tricks — prayers, begging, threats.
Very often, after some time, the tyrant husband begins to understand his mistakes and seeks to improve relations and return his wife. A woman in this case should rely on common sense and experience. Perhaps the man has learned the fact that the wife will not let herself be offended and he can be given a second chance.