How to be a weak woman

Allow yourself to be helpless. At least once a day. This refers to helplessness, which requires third-party intervention. Of course, it is better if it is a man. Can you fix a leaky faucet or hammer a nail yourself? Do you find it easy to sign contracts and negotiate? Wonderful. But if you at least occasionally demonstrate your helplessness (at a convenient time and at the right time, of course), then everyone will be amazed to see an element of fragile femininity in you. This will give you a special charm, which is very much appreciated by the representatives of the stronger sex.

Learn to ask for help. Of course, for self-sufficient ladies, even this very thought is disgusting. Yes, they would rather gnaw at the ground, but they will not stoop to such humiliation. And in vain. You should know about this little trick, even if you are a super-woman. Indeed, when asking for help, you indirectly declare your own imperfection, which means that you are a living person, and it is at this moment that a small weak woman peeps through your armor. It can’t help but touch the man. This elevates him, inspires him to exploits. And now he is your slave. The existence of a certain psychological attraction to the one who has been helped at least once is known.

Stop taking the daily exam for the image of the ideal and impeccability. It is impossible to be perfect in everything. Let yourself relax. Take it easy, be lazy. Forget for a while about the exact schedule in which your life is squeezed. By the way, analyze it, this graph: is there a place for love in it? Until your man sees that you are ready to give him most of your time, you will not be in demand. Experience and feel (at least briefly) your need for another person. Allow yourself to simply live, escaping from an endless circle of worries. Do not be afraid to seem weak, believe me — a woman only benefits from this.

Change role. You have already been self-sufficient and strong and you know what it is. Now try on the image of a simple and weak woman, vulnerable and helpless. Remove the iron shell. Every woman hides an actress, so it will not be difficult to do this for a while. You will see how many will reach out to you in order to protect, protect, cover themselves, lend a shoulder. The game is worth the candle. Go ahead.

Some women do not allow themselves the luxury of being weak, because in life they have to rely only on themselves. Unfortunately, this phrase has long been no longer a slogan of feminists, but an ordinary reality. But if you always keep your shield and sword ready, then your armor and assertiveness can frighten off any man. After all, protection, mining and standing on the barricades are the prerogative of the strong half of humanity. Do not take away from men the opportunity to take care of you, otherwise they will rush to find a woman with a more gentle disposition.

It is a mistake to think that female weakness is akin to laziness. You must clearly see the line between femininity and selfishness. For example, you should not once again demonstrate to a man your ability to repair sockets or carry bags of groceries home from the store alone. At work and at home, try not to take on all the responsibilities because you can do it faster or because someone you think is not up to the task. If you learn to accept and encourage other people’s help, especially male help, those around you will express a much greater desire for cooperation.

Take up yoga or exercise. They will bring your energy balance back to normal, and after them you will return to your man with a feeling of happy tiredness. For greater effect, contact a psychologist who, thanks to special test tasks, will help you understand where you are making a mistake.

Allow yourself the little things. For example, take time to take care of your own appearance, put on light sundresses after a daily working day in a formal suit, smile more often and take care of the child who lives in your soul. And also open your heart to love, give it to loved ones, let them know and, most importantly, feel your attitude towards them. Because a loving woman wants to hug, pamper and give tenderness in return.