How to get love
06.07.2023 0 комментариев
How to get love
Love has thousands of definitions, because each person understands it in his own way. For some it is a passion, for others it is a concern, for others it is a stable family life. Love is a thousand ways. And in order to achieve it, you need to know which route our future second half is moving.
Find out the route. The understanding of love is made up of psychological characteristics, social and cultural traditions of a person. For some, the norm is to pay for dinner in a restaurant in half, demonstrating respect for the rights of a woman. Others need to build a house and buy forty camels to prove their feelings. Or having seven children. The fewer white spots there are on a person’s map, the easier it is to lay a route to his heart.
Get to know yourself. Love intoxicates, prevents you from looking into your heart and obscures your mind. It seems to us that we can go to the ends of the world, dramatically change our lives and not repent later. But it’s not. We need to understand at what stage of the path we can turn off by giving up our feelings. And won’t we hurt the person we wanted to conquer?
Mutual generosity. Love is an energy exchange: spiritual, emotional, material, in the end, physical. In order for feelings not to stagnate, but to advance, it is important to observe a certain pace. Or rather, focus on the pace of the second half. There are women who love to be conquered in a roundabout way. There are those who do not like to darken. Some men feel comfortable with a well-groomed and successful woman, others need a well-mannered and homely woman, and others need a party girl. You should not practice telepathy, it is better to find out everything directly.
Respect the other person. Without respect, recognition of his rights, there can be no need for love. Although many understand love as undivided power over another person. Such love will turn into a terrible disappointment and ruined destiny. After all, some feelings cause others. Resentment leads to a feeling of revenge. And mutual respect — mutual tenderness, on which the brightest, most beautiful and constant love blossoms.