How to learn to flirt
How to learn to flirt
Tip 2: How to flirt properly
How to flirt correctly?
Real coquetry is always as natural as possible — flirtatious women are changeable, charming, promising, but at the same time they can lose interest, keep their fans at a distance and excite their hearts with smiles and languid glances.
Clever coquetry, which does not irritate a man with its inappropriateness, is by no means inherent in everyone. However, with a little effort, this skill can be mastered.
Do not forget about coquetry, having successfully married. Flirtatiousness is a great way to remind even the best husband that you are not easy prey.
No wonder they say that the best form of coquetry is its absence. Be as natural as possible. Chatter, lisping, cutesy grimaces terribly annoy even the most restrained men. But natural gestures, easy playfulness, on the contrary, look very attractive.
Assess yourself as honestly as possible. Cooing or cooing, combined with inappropriate appearance, causes ridicule. The same goes for flirtatious behavior that is inappropriate for your age. It’s hard to take seriously a thirty-year-old woman who pretends to be a sixteen-year-old high school student.
Do not play all at once. Concentrate all your efforts on one man, do not smile at everyone, this may deprive you of any attention.
Flirt but don’t play
If you have an idea to ruffle a man’s nerves (that is, be late, not come to a meeting, ignore calls and texts, show boredom in his society), you should not flirt. Of course, in this way you can inflame a man, but in the same way you can hurt his pride or humiliate him, otherwise he will go in search of another woman. So alternate periods of boredom and arrogance and tenderness and care. Just don’t make it too even.
Don’t be predictable, never answer directly. Operate with the concepts of «maybe», «probably», «I’ll think about it.» Uncertainty and slight anxiety contribute to a more careful attitude of a man towards you. In addition, this way he will appreciate those moments when you show tenderness and care.
Never bring a man to white heat with his inconstancy. This may not end well.
Keep in mind that men often use exactly the same arsenal of tools. After showering you with flowers, gifts and attention, a man may suddenly disappear. And then you will already be nervous, wait and go crazy with love and jealousy. At the right moment, a smart man will appear on your horizon with a new set of bouquets and gifts. And after that he will be able to twist ropes out of you and twirl you as he pleases.