How to learn to flirt

Learn the «golden rule» of flirting: the main thing is not the goal, but the process itself, which must be enjoyed. That’s the only way to learn to flirt. If you constantly think about how you will go to the registry office with the man you like, no tricks will help even in the task of attracting elementary attention to yourself.

Come to the beginning of the process fully armed. The main thing is to be perfect in every detail. Nothing should bother you: not uncomfortable shoes, not a perfect haircut. First of all, you have to absolutely love yourself. Then the impulse will work.

Let it not seem strange, but be restrained. In the art of flirting, talkativeness is superfluous. You do not need to lay out to the interlocutor all the details of your life. This leaves no room for fantasy — the basis of the art of seduction.

Be attentive to the interlocutor — let him feel that you are really interested in what he is talking about. Ask questions in which your counterpart feels confident. He will be pleased to show off his erudition in front of you, and you will be given the opportunity to express your admiration.

Smile. This is a versatile tool that demonstrates location and openness. She does not oblige to anything, does not hint at anything, but she helps a lot in establishing contact. This is the easiest step in your quest to learn how to flirt.

Take advantage of eye contact. At the very beginning of an acquaintance, the glances thrown at a man should be fleeting. Already in the process of a more thorough conversation, you can afford to hold your eyes a little longer. And don’t forget to look away first if you make eye contact — this way you will let the man feel the first small victory.

According to the situation, use such a “tool” of flirting as “mirroring” the gestures of the interlocutor.

Say «no» with your eyes and a «yes» smile. Uncertainty is a hook on which you need to give a man a firm foothold.

In order not to worry about such trifles as an imperfectly fitting dress, unsuccessful makeup, the smell of sweat or unshaven legs during flirting, you need to be fully equipped. Take care of yourself. It is not necessary to be super fashionable or super expensively dressed, use the most expensive cosmetics and so on. The main thing is that you should be sleek and natural.

When communicating with a man, do not be straightforward and frank in everything. Do not tell him all your insides — what is your family, what do you do, what are your hobbies, how many times have you been married, what is your weight and income, and what do you think about the latest government reshuffle.

Be cryptic, give evasive or provocative answers. If you do not know what to answer, smile and shrug your shoulders — you are not in the exam, you are in the game. A woman who is hiding something, not fully understood, always makes a man want to unravel her.

Do not chat incessantly — men cannot stand female chatter, but they appreciate good interlocutors. For them, the best interlocutor is the one who listens well. Allow the man to speak, but reserve the right to make unexpected or witty comments.

Give a man the opportunity to feel his strength, to help you. Do not load them with overwhelming tasks, whoever likes it. Forget about the ideas of feminism — it has nothing to do with flirting. You can do everything yourself, of course.

Let a man feel superior by flattering his mind. Ask him to help you understand the instructions for a new mobile phone or other gadget, of course, if it is not difficult for him. Even if you understand everything perfectly yourself, listen to him and ask clarifying questions while he explains, you can study him and even tease him with the smell of perfume on your skin or a grateful look.

Disappear, slip away. If you are sure that a man is interested in you, be sympathetic and attentive to him, and then disappear. Miss his call a couple of times or be distracted when talking. Most men will not rest until they get a date or your smile. Let a man make an effort to win your attention, the more he will appreciate you.