Have you found out that your husband is cheating on you, and now you want to punish him? Well, you are absolutely right. This fact cannot be ignored. Impunity can lead to permissiveness, and the husband will continue to cheat on you.
First of all, remember that the punishment is not the change in the store. No need to hurt in response to the pain that was caused to you. Punishment is a way to make a man think about you and repent for his behavior. So try to punish him with love.
This is a difficult method, but very effective.
Your care, love and attention will make a man doubt the correctness of his actions. Why look for happiness on the side if an affectionate and dear wife is waiting at home?
Just remember, this method will work if your attitude towards your husband is disinterested. You should not expect gratitude from him and the fact that the traitor will immediately begin to kiss your feet. Give your love just like that.
The second method is more dubious, but just as effective as the first. Punish him with jealousy.
When using this method, remember that the basis of jealousy should be only the husband’s fantasy and in no case facts. If the fact of your betrayal takes place, the probability of losing your husband will be very high. Men, as a rule, do not forgive this. Note that jealousy will help not only punish the traitor, but also warm up your feelings.
There is another way: to forgive the husband. Do not ignore the case of treason, namely forgive. Gather your strength and discuss with your husband his infidelity. Let him understand the pain he caused you. He will understand how much you love him, that you can forgive this too. In fact, of course, none of the women will be able to completely forgive the fact of her husband’s infidelity. But if you still decide to forgive your husband, then do not remember at every opportunity about his betrayal. And remember, everyone should have a second chance. Give this chance to your delinquent but beloved husband.