How to return a relationship
06.07.2023 0 комментариев
How to return a relationship
They say that it is impossible to enter the same river twice and it is impossible to return the old love. Almost everyone agrees with this, but it is difficult to find a woman who, after parting, secretly would not want to start all over again. If you do not believe the wisdom of the people and are sure that the game is worth the candle, then perhaps it makes sense to try to return your beloved man. But follow a few simple tips to avoid making a lot of mistakes at once.
First of all, determine what drives you in your desire to return a man. Do you want him back because you really miss him, or just out of a desire to take revenge and ruin his life?
Realize if the man left you or went to another woman. Remember that you must forgive — yourself or him, because neither with a sense of guilt nor with a sense of resentment will it be possible to return any relationship.
Make sure you really need it and be prepared to fight for your feelings.
Look for some bridges that can still connect you. You should not try to return a man who has gone far, far away and cannot communicate with you. Look for reasons to talk, and if you have neither reasons nor common topics, then your enterprise will collapse.
Don’t just remember the good. Remember everything that happened — both joys and mistakes, yours and his. Analyze the situation, understand why everything went wrong. In a relationship, both are always to blame, so do not blame only yourself or only him. Make as many conclusions as possible — all of them will become a tool for you to return a man.
Don’t repeat your own mistakes. Remember them all and try this time to do the opposite. If you constantly threw a tantrum on a man for any reason, then it is time to learn to be calm and balanced, and if you constantly cried from any of his words, then you need to learn to control yourself.
If you’re going to get a man back, change yourself. Just change, and do not adapt to his every whim. If you really value this relationship, then you will be able to step over your own habits and your own pride. The main thing is not to fall once again in the eyes of a loved one.
Be patient and persevere. If you have realized all your mistakes and are ready to change, now everything is in your hands. At your first meeting, just make peace, do not take any too abrupt steps, this can only scare you away. Express calmly everything that hurts, and listen to everything that is said to you, even if you do not like to hear it all. Try to talk more on other topics, distract from sensitive issues. Talk about things you both enjoy talking about.
Do not be intrusive in any way. Of course, if you are going to return your man, then you want to constantly be with him, but be patient. Not every man will be ready to return immediately. Do not throw tantrums at him, do not become dependent on him, and in no case take revenge.
Not every man will be ready to return. But often there are many little things that have tied you so tightly that there is still a chance to start all over again. Good luck and be happy no matter what happens.